i can say it now. |
I used to think that the worst thing that could happen was not have daniel's love. i say this now because i am able to with a peaceful expression and the end result that no, this isn't the worst thing. i'm here and i'm alive and i am okay. i knew i would be able to say it someday but in the middle of pain, it really was hard for me to see the end to the agony that was loving him. I meant what i said when in many entries ago i stated that i thought it was possible to have more than one suitable mate... it took so long for daniel to appreciate the kind of person i was always trying to convey and it took almost 10 years and each one being in relationships with other people. go figure. sometimes when i reflect, i wish that had happened a lot sooner. we would of saved ourselves a lot of back and forth uncertainty. i know he regrets how he treated me in the past, like that one time i cried over the phone and the long period of time he stopped speaking to me because his girlfriend at the time didn't like me. When he was having girl troubles during one period of time, he called me a few times to talk about it. i was still in love with him but i wanted to be a good friend. i wanted to be there for him. i cared about him and even if it stung, i wanted to hear him and maybe even catch him laughing or lowering his voice in that way i loved so much. He called me a few times about this and even though it kind of hurt, it also felt like old times. I knew eventually i would stop hurting. i'd just learn to deal with the fact that we would never be together. ever. it sucked to think about but i needed to wedge that into the core of my being. it was the only way to wake up. i wasn't about to be one of those delusional people who couldn't accept when something wasn't meant to be. i'm not crazy and i wasn't about to start. I finally found the love of my life. I'm glad we are still friends. we don't talk every day but we have a mutual repect and love for one another. i know we could have been awesome together. a nutty combination of constant sarcasm, hair, 80s music, band tees, and sexiness all rolled into one.... or some variation of that. maybe. i'm thankful where i am now and who i'm with. |
posted on 2014-08-26 @ 10:34 p.m. |
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