All i have to say is this:

Guys, How do you expect any woman to believe you love her when you wait weeks to say a word to her?

I can't stress enough how important it is to communicate with a woman... especially if you claim to care about her. I can't tell you enough how crucial time really is and every time you let it slip, you are giving someone else the chance to be with the woman you claim to love yourself.

You don't deserve someone you don't respect, honor, cherish and value. If you don't, believe me, someone else will.

You can't say you were blindsided either. You knew what to do this whole time. You just chose not to do it.

Also: (and i'm doing this in all caps, just in case)

NO MATTER HOW BUSY YOU ARE, FIND 2 SECONDS TO AT LEAST SAY: "HEY I'VE BEEN BUSY BUT I'VE BEEN THINKING ABOUT YOU AND I MISS YOU"

THAT'S IT.

2 SECONDS OUT OF YOU DAY. CAUSE YOU KNOW WHAT? YOU CAN'T BE THAT OUT OF THIS WORLD BUSY. THE PRESIDENT IS BUSY. DON'T ACT LIKE YOU DON'T HAVE TIME FOR A 2-5 SECOND GREETING. THOSE ARE LAME EXCUSES THAT ANY WOMAN WILL EVENTUALLY SEE RIGHT THROUGH. WHEN YOU HAVE TO PISS YOU DON'T HOLD IT IN BECAUSE YOU'RE SO BUSY THAT DON'T HAVE TIME TO GO TO THE BATHROOM...RIGHT? OKAY. IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE, YOU MAKE TIME. CASE CLOSED.

The only time a man is afraid to lose a woman is when: He loves her, he knows how much she's worth in all aspects, and because he knows that because she's such a gem that no amount of searching in life would ever produce another one like her... so i ask why take the chance? Isn't it time to wake up already?

In daily life, we set ourselves up to have a certain "list of priorities". Mow the lawn, pay bills, feed the cat. Metaphorically, we also make a list of people which we also prioritize, which in essence is okay except... when it comes to a person you supposedly like? Love? Care for? Okay, get this. How would you feel if you weren't [any] type of priority for someone you cared about? Bad, right? We all want to be liked... even by people we see from time to time.

What happens once you achieve your priorities and find yourself suddenly un-busy with nothing to do but stare the Whitesnake poster above your bed? You call upon the not-so-important-person.

If you didn't realize this before, realize it now, so here goes. Don't put people AND tasks on the same list. That is, You can't have Beverley on the same list in which you have "Must go grocery shopping NOW before i resort to cannibalism." Why? BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE NOT OBJECTS, TASKS OR THINGS. THEY HAVE ACTUAL FEELINGS. If you choose to talk to someone that matters, i'm almost certain that the lawn won't get it's feelings hurt... but the person will. What i'm trying to say is... you may have the will and quick decision to put off doing chores for a couple of days but don't be so quick to neglect the people you care about and love. Don't let hassles of the painful day to day affect how you build relationships or friendships. Don't forget about the people that would willingly talk to YOU in a heartbeat. It's already increasingly difficult to find genuine caring souls who would do anything for you, so don't risk it. Stop treating people like objects and remember they have feelings. If you're going to be TOO busy in life for any human contact, then why live? Why Work? Why exist? Stop, take a breath and throw away the list.

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