Letters to Camila (#2) |
Dear Camila, i decided to dial back my emotions ever since i had that huge cry fest on monday. even though my mother told me i should never stop sharing my dream scenarios with her, it's kind of hard to even want to keep them going...even though i want to. One someone ruins something for me, you can expect me to just stop it all together. Marriage IS important to me and even if i stop spewing out what i wish, hope, want... i will never stop doing so in the solitude of my mind. I didn't tell fabián about what happened that day- he's got enough on his plate with work, school, his mom and step dad to just have more flung at him. That is something i knew from the get-go so i was already prepared mentally for the exhausting time it was going to take from relationship to engagement, to marriage, to life together. Although my dreams and hopes are still the same, i have adjusted a few things in my head. 1. i will hold my tongue when it comes to voicing outloud any ideas about what i would like for my own wedding, kids, and any other form of talk regarding my life as a wife, mother in the near future. 2. I may or may NOT be engaged/married as soon as i hoped to be. 3. I might have to deal with the fact that i will only see my boyfriend once a year for at least 2 or 3 more years (before) my family approves of him fully. 4. They might not approve at all. 5. i might have to make a decision that not everyone will like if things get too difficult. 6. i no longer wish to sacrifice my happiness because of the circumstances. life is not black or white. people fall in love. others should get over it. 7. i will still fight, no matter what.
On the outside, it appears as if nothing has changed even though after Monday, everything i had planned and hoped in my heart would come along is further away than i had wanted. |
posted on 2015-05-21 @ 7:22 p.m. |
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